Wednesday, April 24, 2019

Huge in France on Netflix

I've been boring my local friends by telling them they should watch Huge in France, so I thought I'd spread the word to you.
Maybe my views are not pure since I am an American living in France, but the show has made me laugh as a French comedian travels to LA to reunite with his teenage son. He keeps telling people that he's famous in France, he's the French Jerry Seinfeld, but no one seems to care because he is not famous in LA.
Some of the situations are so French that I just chuckle.
He's trying to convince his son to spend time with him, so he suggests a meal. Or even a coffee. Or even a coffee while they walk like all the Americans do.
That is so American. I got a coffee to go from the new coffee truck this morning. It has a lid and everything. As I walked down the street to my apartment, a Frenchman standing by his window commented on my coffee.
What can I say? "I'm just like an American, walking and drinking coffee," I said to him in French, even though, I am really an American, but the French can't really tell if my accent is British or Australian or American.

The guy who stars in the show is a French actor you will have seen in so many French movies, if you have watched French movies. His name is Gad Elmaleh. And in America, he introduces himself as "C'est Gad," which translates to "It's Gad." Okay, that also reminds me of the time Tucker was two and he came down the stairs at our house in Michigan and said, "Here's Tucker."
But Gad is used to being recognized. He gets no recognition in the States.
The movie I most remember the actor from is The Valet where he plays the role of a valet who pretends to have an affair with a model to save a French businessman from his wife's wrath. (Also a fun movie.)
Anyway, in one of the episodes of Huge in France, they return to Paris, and the scenery is beautiful. There's Notre Dame in its full glory, and I realized that movies will be recognized henceforth as pre and post-fire in Notre Dame. Unlike the Twin Towers, which are there and then gone. the remaining shell of Notre Dame will be quite obvious in films. That made me sad.
Only the first season of Huge in France is out, and the teenage son is a bit of a conceited monster and the wife is also unlikable, but I know Gad will prevail eventually. I watched to the end of the first season.
In one episode, Gad says to his son's friend, that he wishes he could hug him, but he didn't really know how to do it American-style. Again, in France he would have simply kissed the guy's cheeks. The young man tries to show him how to do an American hug, but one extra pat on the back "made it weird." Gad has a lot to learn about America.
Jerry Seinfeld makes some guest appearances. Maybe you'll learn a little something about life in France too.
Check it out and think of me, struggling to fit in on the opposite side of the ocean.

Sunday, April 21, 2019

Easter Morning

I've shared here before about how I have had to adjust to the schedule of life in France. On Sundays, things may be open in the morning, but they will not be open in the afternoon when I have finished teaching. So, with Earl (my official shopper and chef) gone to the States, I've had to be more aware of running out of things -- like food, on a Sunday when the stores will be closed.
I got notice of the coming holiday earlier this week -- no, I'm not talking Easter, I'm talking Easter Monday.
So I checked with the local grocery and the local bakery. Would they be open on Sunday? I figured they would be closed Easter morning, but I was wrong.
The wisteria is in bloom here.
As I walked to the town center this morning during an hour break between classes, I found things surprisingly lively.
I stopped at the butcher who always greets everyone with a booming "bonjour!" I ordered 600 grams of steak haché (ground beef), planning to make meatloaf tomorrow when some friends come over. He told me three additional ways that I could say steak haché in French. We then had a conversation about how difficult French can be because there are so many different ways to say things. I declared that it was easier to make oneself understood, but harder to understand, and he agreed then complimented me on my French. This point, by the way, may be only true for me as someone who can say more than I can understand when others are speaking French.
Next I went to the Spar, the local grocery store across from the butcher. The produce was very sparse (this is the same store that only carries produce that's in season) but I found some potatoes to make garlic potatoes to go with my  meatloaf. I also scooped up a bottle of red wine and a bottle of blanquette (sparkling wine, allegedly a precursor to Champagne). The blanquette is a gift for some friends who are having me over today after I finish teaching. They had invited me for Easter lunch but I couldn't go, so they said to come for a drink.
When I scheduled classes a month ago, I forgot all about Easter, so my Sunday is booked up.
After finishing at the grocery, I went to the bakery. Again, I had checked with the bakers. Yes, they would be open on Sunday morning, and on Monday morning.
I think that a bakery has to be open in town, so they must negotiate among each other. My favorite bakery will close on Thursday instead.
As I was leaving the bakery, I noticed that a little bar/cafe that is rarely open had people sitting at outdoor tables. How strange that they would be open today, I thought as I made my way back to our rental apartment.
But for Sunday and Monday, my larder is stocked.
Well, I might go to the bakery again Monday morning to pick out a little dessert to serve my friends.
"Don't you Americans bake all the time?" my Irish friend Derrick asked.
Well, yes, we do. And at home, I was one of the baking-est Moms around. But does it make sense to bake in France when there are so many fabulous bakeries displaying their wares?

So far, not to me.
This Easter is a big contrast to last Easter when we were in Aix en Provence. Earl and I went to Mass where the incense set off the smoke alarms. Then we enjoyed a sunny lunch in the square. I was in a sleeveless dress and the sun drenched us. It was marvelous.

But my absent husband did make sure I'd have an Easter surprise. He had a friend deliver a chocolate rabbit to me. So thoughtful.

Maybe I should just break up the bunny for dessert tomorrow.
Hope you're all having a lovely Sunday.

Monday, April 15, 2019

Mourning the Loss of Notre Dame

As I prepare to go to bed tonight, flames are still shooting from the top of Notre Dame. The spire has collapsed and the roof of the nave has fallen in.
On Friday, as I walked from our hotel to the train station, I crossed a bridge and saw the beautiful cathedral. I took a picture. It was the last picture I took in Paris.

I can't believe that it will never be the same. 
While Earl and I were spending a few days in Paris, we found ourselves strolling around Notre Dame several times. 
I asked Earl if he had been inside and was surprised to find that he hadn't. I've even attended Mass at Notre Dame. 
We stopped to look at the bells displayed in a line outside. 
New ones were purchased to replace these in celebration of the 850th anniversary. 
850 years! I can't even fathom something that old. 
Our country won't be 800 years old until 2576.
Me trying to coyly pose along with crowds of other people in front of Notre Dame. 

My morning run took me past Notre Dame

You can see the scaffolding around the church where they were working on it. 
I hope that they find the fire was caused by a mistake in the work going on rather than an act of terrorism.
At the same time, I try to imagine a worker with a power tool in hand who started a fire that destroyed an iconic building. That just seems too mundane. 
Paris will never be the same. 

Friday, April 12, 2019

L'Atelier des Lumières - Van Gogh

Last year, as I reviewed some of the best things we had done in France, I included two visits to Carrières de Lumières and L'Atelier des Lumières, huge art installations that projected artwork onto walls and played music to go along with art. One was near Nimes in the South of France and the other in Paris. You can read my blog posts about them here and here.
When I learned that the exhibit this year would be Van Gogh, I had to go. Since Earl was flying out of Paris, we made a mini-vacation out of it with two nights in Paris.
I bought the tickets for the art show ahead of time, which was a wise choice because the tickets were sold out when we arrived in line. We went for the earliest show at 10 a.m. People seemed anxious about getting in, but there really was no rush because you can stay as long as you want, and there are plenty of places to watch the show.
We got in quite early and I had told Earl that I had been there before and didn't like the view from the balcony. As we perched on a round wooden seat, a guard came by and told us the best view was from the balcony, and there were comfortable seats. We decided to move to the balcony, but I should have listened to my own advice.
We could get some panoramic pictures from up high, but watching from the balcony was kind of removed from being down on the floor in the midst of the color, feeling the images move around me and getting a bit dizzy, as if the colors really were washing over me.
A panoramic view from the balcony

A photo I took on the floor when we stayed for the second airing of the Van Gogh exhibit
More irises

A shot of Starry Night from the balcony

The sun over the bare trees
One of the special things about the exhibit is that the creators find motion in the pictures and add that to the artwork.
I tried to record a few short videos that show the motion.
After the Van Gogh, there was a Japanese Dream exhibit. I captured part of that from the floor, which is where I recommend you plant yourself if you make it to the exhibit.

These look 3D, don't they?
Earl enjoyed the show, but admitted he preferred the giant limestone cave where the exhibit takes place in the South of France. Perhaps we'll get a chance to see it there again if we have any visitors this year.
Well worth the cost of 14.90 Euros for the ticket. Go if you can.

Wednesday, April 10, 2019


Even when we think we're starting to put down roots, we end up moving -- again.
Our beautiful apartment two miles from Quillan just didn't have the internet strength for my teaching job.

Someone explained to me that rural areas don't have the internet strengths of towns, even small towns like Quillan. And we found that out.
The owners were lovely, having an expert come in. Putting in a DSL cord that I could plug directly into my computer. But no matter what we tried, my classes kept dropping. Then we would do a mad dash into town to mouch off of other people's wifi.
After losing six classes, I just planned on never teaching at our apartment. It was stressful. I would move all of my teaching tools, along with my computer to friends' homes. I would worry about the lighting and then my computer began to be picky about the outlets where it was plugged in. I got a 5-star review from one parent who said that her child enjoyed my class but my entire focus wasn't on teaching. And this was true. I was too busy worrying about internet and battery life and things that shouldn't come into my one-on-one teaching time.
So Earl and I looked for another place to move. An apartment in town that we had considered earlier still was not completed. The British man renovating it swore that it could be ready in two weeks, but Earl would be gone then and we weren't sure if it would actually be ready.

We rented a place along the river for a month. We have a strict deadline to be out though because it is rented to someone else on May 5th.
The apartment is along the river though, so not too shabby
So once again, we found ourselves gathering all of our belongings we had spread throughout the apartment -- emptying drawers, pulling olive oil and spices from cabinet shelves, washing sheets and towels we had acquired, folding the quilt I'd brought from home, .

We piled our suitcases and bags near the door, ready to hand out to the street when Earl pulled up the car.
We had quite a bit more than we did January 2018 when we left the States with two suitcases and a carry-on bag each.
A lot of what is in the bags is cooking supplies and toiletries that we know we'll use, but it is a surprise that we have begun to accumulate goods again, after having purged ourselves of nearly everything a year ago.
Still, I have to think that Marie Kondo would be quite satisfied with the scarcity of our belongings.
Earl made two trips while I settled down to teach in our new apartment.
And this time, in the lovely apartment along the river, we haven't bothered to unpack, Earl shifted things around to the bag he is taking home to the States. I put some of my most commonly worn clothes in a drawer, but the other bags will remain packed in anticipation of another move in less than a month.
Why aren't you looking to buy, an Australian acquaintance asked us recently, and I didn't have a good answer. Was I still on the fence about France, about Quillan?
Being a nomad is not easy, so some tough decisions must be faced in the coming days, and we'll make them while Earl is in the States and I am in France.
Will the apartment be ready and will we want to move there?
Will we opt for something totally different in a new part of France?
Will we chuck it all in and return to the States during the high tourist season, coming back to France in the fall? But then we would miss all of the musics and the festivals.
Stay tuned to see where we land.
Wherever it is, we know it will be an adventure.

Sunday, April 07, 2019

Owl-nalysis of My French Language Skills

If you follow me on Facebook, you've already seen part of this story but I thought I'd dive a bit deeper on the blog.
On Saturday morning, Earl told me he heard a horrible screech during the night and when he went out on the balcony, he saw a bird dangling in a tree. Our neighbor Jack had seen the same thing and they determined it was an owl.
The bird was upside down on a tree branch and just looked like a mess of feathers. We all agreed that it was sad and wondered how it had managed to hang on. Theresa, who has worked with raptors at the zoo, wondered if it might have fallen prey to people who put tar on branches to catch birds, but the branch was over the river and not reachable by people except from our terraces.
Theresa came back to look at the bird and none of us saw any movement, so we agreed the owl was probably dead. We felt sad about it and wondered if the blustery night had doomed the bird.
Later that evening, Jack messaged that we should look at the bird. It was upright on the branch, one wing weirdly stuck out.
The owl just looks like a mess of feathers from this angle

From this angle, you can hardly tell that he's hurt. 
It must have broken a wing, I suggested.
I decided to call the "pompiers" which is French for firefighters. They have been known to rescue wil animals and get them where they need to go.
I didn't know the number to call for the pompiers' non emergency and I still hate speaking French on the phone, so I drove out to their station.
Several firefighters stood around a truck and they looked at me curiously as I pulled up and walked toward them. I had a picture of the owl and some basic phrases I planned to use.
A young woman firefighter came toward me and I told her about the owl with the broken wing. I didn't look up the word for wing, but I could hold my arm up awkwardly so she knew what I meant.
She informed me that I needed to call 18 so they could be dispatched. I hemmed and hawed, trying to get out of making the phone call, sure that I wouldn't be able to explain it adequately.
But I drove back home and used Earl's French phone to call.
I told the man on the line that there was an injured owl in a tree over the river. He asked me some questions like what city I am in and how high is the branch. I could answer those. Then he asked me, how do you know it is injured (blessé)? I didn't expect him to challenge my assessment of the bird.
I explained that this morning we thought it was dead. I couldn't think of the word for upside down so I quickly looked it up and said, "ce matin nous avons pensé qu'il était mort; c'était à l'envers." And then I explained that it was no longer "à l'envers."
The man told me, Don't worry -- "Ne t'inquiète pas. C'est normal." It's normal for an owl to be in a tree.
Did he think because I don't speak fluent French that I was stupid, that because I couldn't explain in French how the bird was injured that it couldn't be injured? Possible. Unfortunately, I speak better French than many English speakers here, so it frustrated me terribly that they didn't take me seriously.
I posted on Facebook, hoping someone from the town would see it and come to our rescue, and someone did, but not the pompiers. Instead, some British friends who are animal lovers kept asking if the bird had been saved yet. I figured I hadn't been clear enough in my writing that the firefighters were not coming to save the bird.
As darkness began to descend about 8 p.m., Steve and Lou pulled up in their van.
We debated the pros and cons of trying to save the owl. After all, it had come back from the near dead, and it looked better, being upright instead of upside down. Maybe if we left it alone it would heal.
It might try to attack us if we got close to it.
What if we tried to save it and knocked it into the river. Lou was ready to jump in after the owl, she decided as she stacked her phone on a stone and Steve added his to the pile.
Steve had been a firefighter in England, and he's in great shape, running and biking constantly.
Two tree trunks run parallel, so Steve shimmied up the one opposite the owl's perch.
Once he got close, he could see that the bird was wrapped in fishing line. 
Oh no. I felt so guilty then for not trying to go up and check on it earlier. The poor bird had been tied to a tree branch all day.
As Steve assessed the situation, he decided the best way was to cut through the two branches, the one where the bird sat and the other where its wing was attached by fishing line.
We found a saw and Earl climbed a bit up the trunk to hand it to Steve. Then he began to cut through the wood. As the branch cracked, we feared that the bird and the branches would plunge into the river. But Steve stopped and reached over to break off the two branches together.
He handed them to Earl, who somehow handed them to me.
The owl on his way down to the ground

One last picture before I took the branches
He had lost his grip on the branch and dangled by his injured wing, so I quickly tried to get his feet to the ground so I wouldn't put more stress on his injured wing.
Earl squatted down with a pair of scissors and began to snip away at the fishing line. Lou put a towel over the owl's head, but he had remained calm throughout, not squawking or snapping.
Earl removed the fishing lure attached to the line.

The hook wasn't embedded, just caught in the feathers. 
And slowly, unwound all the fishing line as Steve and I held our phone lights over the whole procedure. Finally, the owl was free, but he made no move to flea.
Lou suspected he would be weak and dehydrated after a day wrapped in fishing line. She decided to take him home and to try to find someone to look after him on Sunday.
So with him wrapped in a towel, we came into the light and I finally got a shot of him, his eyes closed, swaddled in Lou's arms.

The latest report is that he's taking some water through a dropper, but not eating the proffered dog food. Theresa suggested the dog food should be soaked in water so the owl could get hydrated. She told me they used to soak dead mice in water before they fed the owls, but none of us had dead mice.
They tired reaching out to people today, and our French friend Cedric even made some phone calls to try to reach the wild bird people, but we've had no luck.
Hopefully, he'll continue to heal and a vet will take him on Monday.
But the language thing still bothers me. I wasn't able to convey the seriousness of the matter to the pompiers, and I wonder how many times things are shrugged off because the person who is calling doesn't speak the language.
I know it doesn't only happen in France. I'm sure the same thing is true in the States for people who don't speak English.
I wanted to return to the fire station today with pictures and explain how we saved the owl and how the dispatcher told me not to worry that owls are supposed to be in trees, but I restrained myself.
Hopefully, if I ever have a people emergency, I'll be able to make myself understood.
Meanwhile, I better keep working on my French. Now what was the word for wing again? 

Wednesday, April 03, 2019

Dodging A Bullet

We've all read news stories about a business going under and wondered what happened to the people who had tickets for the cruise or the flight, but Earl and I had never faced that ourselves -- until this week.
Earl was scheduled to fly back to the States next month on Wow Air. That's the cheap airline that lands in Iceland, and they went belly-up on Thursday, leaving him holding useless tickets.
We hadn't heard about Wow Air until our friend Najah flew over last year. She drove from Columbus to Pittsburgh and flew Pittsburgh to Reykjavik to Paris.
Iceland looks a bit bleak

When Earl needed to go home quickly last August (the height of airfare costs from Europe to the States) he flew Wow. Then when I rushed home in February, going one way, the cost was cheapest again on Wow.
I returned on Norwegian, another low cost airfare.
Our experiences were fine, although, at one point when they announced, is there a doctor on board, I thought, "Really, would a doctor fly Wow Air?"
Unlike most airlines, Wow did not have in-seat entertainment. Maybe it seems spoiled to want to have movie and TV choices on an 8 or 9-hour flight, but it sure does make the flights go faster.
When we learned on Thursday about the death of Wow Air, we wondered if we should have been more aware. I had seen an article with the headline like "Why It's Safe to Fly on Wow Air" and I tried to click on it but I was blocked because I didn't have a subscription to The Guardian. That just made me think, huh, I wonder if we shouldn't be flying on Wow.
There was some muttering about financing, but other articles assured that the funding always comes through at the end through Iceland.
So we obliviously scheduled a flight on Wow.
When we saw through our online news that the company had gone under, we regretted not buying the flight insurance. Then we hopped on and rearranged another flight for Earl. We figured that everyone would be looking for replacement flights.
On Travelocity, we found a flight that was even cheaper than the Wow Air flight. So we booked it (he will have to pay for checked luggage since he's taking his backpack home for a hiking trip) but we felt fortunate to be able to schedule so last minute for $631 (561 euros).
Then we had to worry about how to get our money back. CNN told us we were basically screwed. We could file with the company but we would become one of many creditors asking for our money back. Another article suggested that credit card companies might have been keep track of the shaky finances of the airline and have held back money instead of paying upfront.
Earl contacted our credit card company the next day and they said the money would be refunded within 7 days! What a relief, and a reminder that using the right credit card company is important.
So no more WOW, but I'm convinced that we'll be better off choosing a specific airline and flying with them every time to earn points.
And will we be using that credit card again? Yep, whenever we book travel, count on us using our Sapphire card.

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