Grad Party Denial

I know I must be in denial because I'm not waking up in the middle of the night worrying about the graduation party that's happening at my house this Saturday. It's not just a party for Spencer; it's for four boys.
Two years ago at this time, I was in a fully tizzy for Grace's party. I'm pretty sure I even took some time off work to make sure everything got done.
This year, I accepted some substitue hours for Friday morning. I have done nothing for the upcoming party. I haven't started cleaning. I don't have lists of tasks to accomplish. I don't have lists of ingredients for food.
I have ordered a bakery cake and sent out invitations.
I think part of the problem is that I'm throwing the party with two other moms. Two of the boys are twins, which is why we end up with four graduates. I must be feeling like they're going to take care of things. But I know they won't clean my house, so what am I waiting for?
So here's what I better do before I go to work today:

• Make a list of cleaning that needs to get done on Friday
• Make a list of ingredients I need for my turtle cakes and pineapple upside down cakes I'm baking
• Make a list of ingredients for the pasta salad.
• Check to see if I have enough plates and silverware.
• Wine!! I need to buy wine and make sangria.
• Better get some pop, cause the 18-year-olds don't get to drink wine.
• Stop by Sheila's house for the canopy I'm borrowing and drink some wine.

What else? Somebody had better help me get ready for this party.