tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32469880.post2436321118634161758..comments2024-03-27T07:54:13.206-04:00Comments on An Accidental Blog: The "C" WordPaulita http://www.blogger.com/profile/14237320966048538408noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32469880.post-27370791842221157782010-03-18T02:17:35.715-04:002010-03-18T02:17:35.715-04:00Just being available for talking would be the best...Just being available for talking would be the best thing I would guess. I think fear would keep you-and me-avoiding her, not knowing what to say. There are many survivors now of breast cancer-focus on that. Tough situation to be in.Lindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07041872314763651462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32469880.post-40896366578044742222010-03-17T15:08:04.462-04:002010-03-17T15:08:04.462-04:00Since you are, bar none, the best friend a person ...Since you are, bar none, the best friend a person ever had I am positive you will do the right thing, say the right things and be the right friend in this time of need. It is terribleBFFnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32469880.post-36687732862371452512010-03-17T10:32:05.104-04:002010-03-17T10:32:05.104-04:00Lucia, Thanks for you wise words. I'm sorry fo...Lucia, Thanks for you wise words. I'm sorry for your brother and his loss and I'm sure you were a comfort to him.Paulitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02611117766982930997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32469880.post-83780495282576280892010-03-17T09:28:33.772-04:002010-03-17T09:28:33.772-04:00(I'm not sure what stage she is in) hopefully ...(I'm not sure what stage she is in) hopefully in the curable stage.<br /><br />Be there for her, support her. Call her, visit her, have coffee or tea or water or whatever she wants, listen to her fears, give her hugs, cry with her. When my sister in law was going through breast cancer, I truly learned the meaning of friendship through her friends, they were there every step of the way and there for my brother and his 4 boys after she passed away. Not all Cancer is a death sentence! But to have your friends and family around was I know for her the most joyous thing ever. Every little thing counts when you are going through this. It's not contagious, it's not leprosy and every bit of normalacy counts even though things aren't normal. Sometimes friendship is like marriage, for better or for worse through sickness and in health...I will keep you and your friend in my prayers.Luciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02064247260945638783noreply@blogger.com