tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32469880.post6879609369291853323..comments2024-03-27T07:54:13.206-04:00Comments on An Accidental Blog: Mean GirlsPaulita http://www.blogger.com/profile/14237320966048538408noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32469880.post-16252082253411166452011-03-30T13:00:35.423-04:002011-03-30T13:00:35.423-04:00That I do. Its like having a support group of aunt...That I do. Its like having a support group of aunts, mothers and big sisters. Thanks everyone for your love and kind words.Gracenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32469880.post-27548241026098926172011-03-29T19:41:27.209-04:002011-03-29T19:41:27.209-04:00Guys, Thanks for your support for Grace. She reads...Guys, Thanks for your support for Grace. She reads regularly and I'm sure she feels your love and support.Paulitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02611117766982930997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32469880.post-614704820571914202011-03-29T13:21:35.692-04:002011-03-29T13:21:35.692-04:00I'm really sorry to hear that Grace is going t...I'm really sorry to hear that Grace is going through this. <br /><br />I'm not sure why it hurts so much but it does. Why does slamming your finger in the screen door hurt.<br /><br />Yes it can happen at work too. My current job is the first time I experienced it. Once I was able to to see, it was being done to other people as well, was I able to take it less personally. <br /><br />It still happens from time to time, and it's still painful but now I know it's not really about me.<br /><br />Hope this makes sense.Hope this makes sensenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32469880.post-10145125001790546422011-03-29T11:25:29.657-04:002011-03-29T11:25:29.657-04:00Girls / Females can be sooo nasty and bitchy.. NO ...Girls / Females can be sooo nasty and bitchy.. NO not me , I got picked on all the time for the shape of my chin.... they called me names all of the time ..!!<br /><br />I am sure your daughter will find TRUE friends .. travel to Paris , see the world and have fab memories for a long time to come .... ♥Anne in Oxfordshirehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14479380647784781207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32469880.post-5422009739897093572011-03-29T01:34:17.317-04:002011-03-29T01:34:17.317-04:00I think the freshman year is always tough. I had a...I think the freshman year is always tough. I had a horrible roommate my freshman year but to my surprise and delight, a nice girl I really liked asked me to be her roommate and we became life long friends. It's hard being rejected. I've been there.Lindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07041872314763651462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32469880.post-50138952125236617042011-03-28T22:52:25.920-04:002011-03-28T22:52:25.920-04:00Grace can chat with Mirae sometime about friends a...Grace can chat with Mirae sometime about friends at college. Mirae moved out of her house of 'friends' the beginning of her sophomore year and moved into a new friend situation. It ended very nicely though a ROUGH year. <br />There's a book about ups and downs of women/girl friendships...Best Friends by Apter and Josselson.<br />I reread it when I need to remind myself and my daughters of the universal :) and :( experiences. <br /><br /><3 Love to Grace <3<br />Tell her the other girls are cake sniffers, we think she's the best and would LOVE to room with her.Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09432297302456335219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32469880.post-83756561901450109792011-03-28T20:05:23.615-04:002011-03-28T20:05:23.615-04:00Thanks, Sheila and Lucia. It's good to know Gr...Thanks, Sheila and Lucia. It's good to know Grace isn't alone. Hope Marina survives her middle school ordeal.<br />Grace and a friend who's a boy decided to request the same hall next year, so at least she'll have that. Boys seem safer friends than girls, until they want to be more than friends.Paulitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02611117766982930997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32469880.post-46907574998667408072011-03-28T10:50:02.999-04:002011-03-28T10:50:02.999-04:00Yep, so much one can say about this isn't ther...Yep, so much one can say about this isn't there. My daughter is going through this now too. Why are girls so nasty to each other?<br />I used to see this pre kindergarten on our street.Luciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02064247260945638783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32469880.post-47871780295607603202011-03-28T10:25:11.141-04:002011-03-28T10:25:11.141-04:00I know its hard to keep this in mind when you are ...I know its hard to keep this in mind when you are in the midst of these friendship issues. Grace is going to go so much further than the walls of that college dorm room. she has big European plans and true friends that she will get to share that with. Hopefully, Beth, Marie and Grace will reunite in Paris and make fabulous memories. And she will keep making new friends along the way, you never know which of those friends will end up being the true friends that you keep forever. But each new experience opens you up to that possibility if you let it. <br /><br />That all being said I think a transfer to a warmer, closer campus is still a good idea!<br /><br />we love you Grace!Sheilahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05927567452092145101noreply@blogger.com