tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32469880.post6275164356728194395..comments2024-02-19T03:31:23.742-05:00Comments on An Accidental Blog: Sexual HarassmentPaulita http://www.blogger.com/profile/14237320966048538408noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32469880.post-14209518477285643422016-02-21T22:01:52.889-05:002016-02-21T22:01:52.889-05:00Paulita, I'm so sorry. Don't be hard on yo...Paulita, I'm so sorry. Don't be hard on yourself. You are a strong woman; it's just hard to be prepared for something like this. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18089330157156927940noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32469880.post-61200492300391709672016-02-18T11:55:25.220-05:002016-02-18T11:55:25.220-05:00Samantha, I agree. That's what shocked me the ...Samantha, I agree. That's what shocked me the most, that I didn't respond more strongly. The college let me know today that this is a Title IX violation and he won't be in my class for the final. What a relief!Paulita https://www.blogger.com/profile/14237320966048538408noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32469880.post-29448495674451883352016-02-18T11:29:41.305-05:002016-02-18T11:29:41.305-05:00Oh I'm so sorry that this happened to you! Wha...Oh I'm so sorry that this happened to you! What a jerk. I don't care if he is from another culture, some things are universal and hugging a woman when she doesn't want to be is wrong in any land. I also really understand how women are taught to be so polite. It is so hard for me to stop being like that and speak up for myself. I'm proud of you saying "No" and informing your dean. This is a wake up call to all women to take control and have the power to yell and say no!!!Samanthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18284358164233338221noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32469880.post-89396204681848634652016-02-18T11:00:16.170-05:002016-02-18T11:00:16.170-05:00Just Me, Thanks for making me feel like my words m...Just Me, Thanks for making me feel like my words matter.<br />Linda, That's awful. I'm so proud of you for responding in a strong way and hitting the guy! My regret is that I didn't take more action. Paulita https://www.blogger.com/profile/14237320966048538408noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32469880.post-77074271670285971012016-02-18T02:38:29.640-05:002016-02-18T02:38:29.640-05:00That guy needs some help. I wonder if it is becaus...That guy needs some help. I wonder if it is because he comes from another country or if he is just a predator. It's such a sick feeling, I know. I had a guy expose himself to me on the bus and I beat him on the head with a rolled up poster I was carrying. I'd be upset too. I hope something is done.Lindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07041872314763651462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32469880.post-20595097939037009812016-02-17T17:28:31.038-05:002016-02-17T17:28:31.038-05:00Oh my gosh what a good post. I'm so sorry abou...Oh my gosh what a good post. I'm so sorry about the whole situation. For what it's worth, Your description, struggling and working through this has really helped me. Just Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10622815935514628163noreply@blogger.com